Not deciding is still a decision. It keeps you in the same place, and it often increases stress over time. Although hesitation can feel “safe”, the cost builds quietly in the background.
In this episode, Dr Steve Wolfson explores decision-making and why you may second-guess yourself. Because fear of regret and fear of judgement often drive avoidance, you can end up stuck in overthinking. However, clarity does not require perfect confidence. Instead, it requires a process you can repeat.
You will learn how to separate real risk from imagined risk. As a result, you can move forward with more intent, even when uncertainty remains.
What you will learn
- Why avoidance feels safer than action
- How overthinking blocks progress
- How to clarify what you truly want
- How to choose without needing certainty
- How to handle doubt after you decide
Try this after listening
Start with one delayed decision. Then answer these questions in writing.
- What happens if I do nothing for another month?
- What is the smallest decision I can make today?
- What information do I truly need, and what is just reassurance?
Next, choose one action you can complete in 24 hours. For example, send a message, book a call, or draft the first version. Finally, review what you learned from taking action, because feedback builds clarity.
Keep going
Continue the series here: The Good Shift series.
Use Neury® to track decisions and outcomes: Explore Neury®.
If you want guided support through Psychotherapy, supported by our Psychology Clinic, book here: Book an appointment.
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